Why I Write (and Read) Christian Romance

“I write inspirational romantic comedy.”

And then I wait with bated breath. Why? Because I get a variety of reactions when I tell people this. And for some reason, real people look at you funny when you say that you talk to imaginary people, so I thought this response sounded more…uh, normal than saying that I giggle with glee when I devise the perfect plan to get my bickering couple to spend more time together, consequently ushering them down the road of Happily Ever After. And if romance isn’t your thing, that’s fine! God made all of us different, so celebrate your God-given uniqueness! But my thing is experiencing a mob of butterflies on a sugar high in my gut when the hero and heroine finally kiss! 

I am a dreamy romantic, and I always have been. I find the romance in reading or writing at my favorite coffee house. My husband’s hugs are just as swoony as his surprise trips to the bookstore. I’ll read almost (there are exceptions!) any story or genre if there’s at least a thin romantic thread. Romance and love are all around us, every single day! Romance is a billion-dollar industry and leading genre for a reason – we connect to it on a soul level!

With my newest novel releasing last week on Valentine’s Day, I have been thinking about why I love Christian Romance. This is what I found in that cluttered, anti-KonMari place known as my mind:

1.  I love the kissing!

Okay, I’ll be honest… I wait for that first kiss (and the next one…and the one after that…) between Mr. and soon-to-be Mrs. Right. I happily sigh and grin, and sometimes I need smelling salts! I love that Christian Romance is sweet, sizzling, and safe all at the same time! 

2.  I love the fight!

No, not the fighting… (Although, I probably have too much fun writing the scenes of back-and-forth bickering.) I mean that I love seeing Prince Charming and Lady I’m-More-Than-Just-A-Pretty-Face fight for each other, for love, for the chance to see what God has in store for them! When trauma threatens to crush a marriage, this is a message of hope. When a family is broken and hurting, this is a message of hope. When we are lost and alone, this is a message of hope. Knowing that God has put people in our corner who will fight for us and with us is a powerful thing. Knowing that we are called to fight for our loved ones is just as empowering. But when a story can remind me that God is fighting for me, that’s beautiful! Without fail, I always see this message of hope in Christian Romance, giving me hope on the days I want to fail myself into a vat of chocolate and devour the whole thing.

3.  God created it!

Love and romance were created by God, and this always blows my mind in an obvious sort of way. These beautiful and sacred treasures have been around since the very beginning! It’s not something invented by greeting card companies. It’s not something to shame, ignore, or forget. And it is NOT a waste of time! They are gifts that He created for us out of His love for us, and they should be celebrated and enjoyed! No other genre does this better than Christian Romance, though her subgenres are pretty awesome! With this truth in my heart, I will happily continue to immerse myself in the romantic world of the bookish.

Because He created each facet for me to enjoy.


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V. Joy Palmer is the author of Love, Lace, and Minor Alterations, Weddings, Willows and Revised Expectations (her newest release), and a member of American Christian Fiction Writers. She is also an avid blogger and co-founder of Snack Time Devotions. In her spare time, Joy is an unprofessional chocolate connoisseur/binger, and she loves acting crazy and drinking coffee with the teens she mentors. When Joy isn't urging the elves that live in her computer to write, she's hanging out with her husband, their adorable baby girl, and their socially awkward pets.